It's Not Him, It's You The Truth You May Not Want to Hear But Need to Hear

This book explained the top 10 mistakes that women make when it comes to dating and then gave research based advice on how to fix them.

Top 10 Mistakes Include 

1. You Think Men Have a Clue
2. Your Attitude Sucks
3. You Think Rejection is About You
4. You Have Weak Standards
5. You Don't Get Men
6. You Think You Need to Be a Supermodel
7. Let Him Choose You
8. You Ignore the Red Flags
9. You Plan Your Wedding After the First Date
10. You Listen to Your Mother

There was a lot of good ideas in this book. I didn't agree with everything but it was very good. I would highly recommend this to anyone who wants some more insight to date better. I think that we need to be proactive with looking for our forever mate but I have learned that the closer you are to God the more he reveals the stuff that you desire in a man and who is not right for you.

The Winter Ghosts

Freddie was in a car accident in France. He somehow manages to get out of his car and walk to the closest town Nulle. He takes a room in an in. The innkeeper invites him to go to a celebration in the village. He accepts and finds himself in a bar with all these people. He meets a girl and they both recount on their life. The next day he talks to the innkeeper about the celebration but she says that he wasn't there. He also goes out with a search party where he retrieves his car. He then finds his mysterious woman and she leads him to a cave. He goes in and rips down a man-made wall that was put there to entomb these people in the 14th century because of their religious beliefs.He solves an unknown mystery that no one knew about and helped him heal himself in the process. I really liked it a lot. The writer was very eloquent and it took you there.

Heiress for Hire

Amanda's dad cuts her off from her money and she goes to Cuttersville, OH to take a break from Chicago life. She doesn't know what to do without money until she meets Dan. He is a farmer who just found out he has a kid, that was dropped on his doorstep. He helps her out by giving her a job as his babysitter. They are resistant at first but eventually start a relationship and instead of going back to Chicago she follows her heart and stays with Dan.

Loving What Is

This book was ok. I almost didn't want to finish it because the writer had a lot of fluff and sometimes was boring. But it really helped me to see how to start working on looking at my negative thoughts and how to start working on them. She calls it the work which is a 4 question process to work through.

The 4 questions
1. Is it true?
2. Can I absolutely know it's true?
3. How do I react when I think that thought?
4. Who would I be without the thought?

After analyzing 1 negative thought you then have to turn it around by finding examples of how the turnaround is true in your life.